Men are weird, they are fickle and so darn hard to please; but you ask how do I get my ex boyfriend back? Let me tell you exactly how it's done, and you will be surprised at how easy and effective the following techniques will be to bring him back and into your arms.
First of all, I am a man myself and so therefore I happen to be somewhat of an expert on men.
Let me tell you our worst fears: that we are missing out on something great, and that we're never good enough so we always look for someone to help us become what we want.
If you can understand these two simple concepts you are well on your way to stop asking how do I get my ex boyfriend back, and you can change it to "yes, back where you belong.
" So if you know what a person's worst fears are, you have power over them.
So let take a look at how this knowledge can get your ex boyfriend back.
Never, never, never act in a way that is considered to be needy, desperate, or obsessed in front of your ex (so immediately stop any constant calling, texting, emailing).
You need to act cool, calm, and with an air of self assurance with him.
Why? Because these are qualities which everyone is universally attracted to; we crave those qualities and we are magnetically attracted to them in order to have it "rub off" on us.
When in the presence of you ex (in a situation carefully contrived by you) you must leave no doubt in your ex's head that you are not available, that you have "moved on" and quite possibly are seeing other people.
He can't touch you anymore (figuratively speaking.
) What you have done is essentially turned the tables on him; you have now rejected him.
And you know how we all hate rejection! Why, because we think we are missing out on something great...
you! The more he can't touch you, the more he's going to want you.
We always want most what we can't have, it drives us crazy.
If you know what you're doing you can start to drive your ex crazy for you again.
This is a way to bypass all of the human defenses and self-rationalization maneuvers and get right to his core.
It's almost like cheating, and it never was so good.
With this method you can change "how do I get my ex boyfriend back" to "there you are, right back where you belong!"