Have you been trying to read your ex girlfriend's mind? If you have you know that it's an exercise in futility.
It's hard enough to know what a woman is thinking or feeling when you're in a relationship with her.
Once that relationship is over it's near impossible to decipher much at all based on what she says or does.
If you still love her, you're probably looking for clues that suggest that she feels the same way about you.
Unless you know exactly what you're looking for, you're going to end up feeling frustrated and confused.
There are actually several clear signs she wants you back that you need to brush up on.
If you notice any of these, the woman isn't over you just yet.
Here are 3 signs she wants you back: She asks mutual friends about you.
You can always gauge a woman's interest based on her interest in what's going on in your life.
If mutual friends have been mentioning to you that your ex asks a lot of questions about you, it's obvious the woman isn't even close to being ready to start a new life without you.
She wants to know every detail about your life because she's still hooked on you.
Consider this a strong sign that she has feelings for you that reach beyond friendship.
She tries to find ways to see you.
Some women are skilled at this while others just don't quite have it figured out.
If your ex girlfriend has crisis after crisis that requires your attention or expertise, it's probably all a ruse so that she can see you.
Some examples of this are the woman who can't get her computer to work or she ran out of gas.
If you're still her go-to guy for whenever she needs a helping hand, she still wants to be around you.
She flirts with you.
This may be subtle or it could be very direct.
If your ex girlfriend flirts when you two are talking on the phone or when you are in the same room, she's probably hoping you'll react to her advances in a positive way.
If she was completely over you, she wouldn't be sending out any romantic signals at all.
Take her flirtations as a compliment and reciprocate if you're interested in getting her back.
If you notice any of these signs you can be sure that your ex isn't completely over you.
Use the insight you gained when you two were together combined with your observations regarding her behavior now and you'll easily be able to determine if she wishes you two were back together again.
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