Life is not easy after a breakup...
And even harder if you still have strong feelings for the person that left you.
There are times when people make mistakes that they regret but they don't try to sort them out and give up too early.
Truth is, a lot of mistakes or disagreements can be restored if one would just not force things and apply some techniques.
Sometimes an effective apology is all that's needed to salvage a relationship, but people's egos gets in the way and they decide to rather not apologize at all...
A shame.
But if you are still in love with your ex and want to make up with them, then do not lose hope.
After putting yourself back together, you can follow some steps that will dramatically increase your chances.
Here some (counterintuitive) tips that will help you out.
Tip #1) Cut off all communication with your ex for about a month.
Why? First, to let you calm down and get a clear head and second...
and more important...
to let your ex miss you for a while.
This is a proven solution to make your ex miss you and think about you more often.
So give them some space.
Respect also their moment of soul searching.
This way you will help them realize how important you are to them.
Tip #2) Spend some time with your family and friends.
Having some people around you in this moment of pain is a must.
Rather than crying alone and torturing yourself inside your room, go out and force yourself to not be alone too long.
This will make you feel better and recover faster.
Tip #3) After recovering from your initial heartache and shock (after the no-contact period of 3-4 weeks), give them an easy call.
Ask them out for a short an uncomplicated meeting and initiate a brief get-together.
Bonus tip: Try to arrange to go out to some place where you had some joyous moments before to remind them subconsciously of how happy you were then in each other's arms.
But, don't go to some awkward events yet where it's too demanding.
You need to be brief at first and test the waters, so be brief.
Don't bring up the relationship yet.
This will come later.
Making up with your ex may take some time, but if you follow the right plan you will get an enormous advantage in the process, compared to acting frantically out of desperation.