Your boy/girlfriend has left you.
You are heartbroken.
You want him/her back desperately.
What are you going to do about it? You just cannot sit there and cry your heart out and keep wishing he/she will come flying back into your arms simply by praying hard.
You have to get up and do something about it or your ex will be lost forever.
Here are 4 effective psychological tricks that will help bring back your ex back to you in no time.
oThe first move you should make is to prove and show your ex that you have not been affected by the separation.
Get out now, go take up some exercise and get back in shape if you have been neglecting your body.
Go for a makeover and make yourself look more attractive.
This new you will make your ex look in your direction with curiosity.
He/she would have expected you to go into a fit of depression after leaving you in the lurch.
oProve to him/her that you are enjoying life anyway.
Attend all parties and social gatherings that your ex is sure to attend and make sure you are your joyous self in their presence.
This will set him/her thinking.
If you are mingling with other singles intimately and cheerfully, there might even be a tinge of jealousy in their hearts which could work in your favor.
oShow you ex that you can get a hotter date than him/her.
Your ex would have expected you to have crumbled after the separation.
Just show them that you have happily moved on even if you do not feel so.
oAnother great idea to get back at your ex is to convince a close friend to pretend to be your date and play along.
You could send indicators to your ex that you are planning to move ahead in life and even are quite serious about another relationship.
This works well in stirring up jealousy in your ex's mind and can get him/her to make moves of reconciliation.
Whatever you do make sure you tread carefully.
Your aim is to bring back your ex into your arms, not drive him/her away forever.