Have you tried everything and anything possible to get your ex boyfriend back? Most probably you did.
But somehow, in one way or another, everything you have done so far doesn't seem to work.
If the situation above describes you, then you are probably working against human nature.
Working against human nature is not going to help you bring your boyfriend back.
Instead, it will end up pushing your boyfriend further and further away.
Now, you may be wondering what exactly is human nature.
Well, to put it simply, people hate to be pushed too hard.
The more you push your boyfriend, the more he will resist.
Therefore, you shouldn't keep on pestering your boyfriend.
You don't want to make him feel guilty about breaking up with you.
You don't want to keep on calling him over and over again.
You don't want to send him too many email messages.
You don't want to send him too many text messages.
By doing all those things mentioned above, you will end up irritating your boyfriend.
Instead, what you should be doing is to work with human nature.
You want to cut off all contact with him for the time being and focus on getting other areas of your life in order.
Ultimately, how can you expect your boyfriend to miss you if you keep on contacting him? By cutting off contact for a while, your boyfriend might realize that he is missing something in his life.
He may start to miss you and think about why he fell in love with you in the first place.
Meanwhile, keep on improving yourself in other areas of your life.
Who knows, when your boyfriend sees the positive changes in you, he might start to admire you again and start wooing you again.