We always ask this: "Why do these ladies fall for the rotten ones?" Then, we really think hard. To our dismay, we seem to find silence instead of answers. And if there are answers, they seem to be gibberish and incomprehensible.
Why? Why the hell women love bad boys? They treat women like dirt. They are inconsiderate bits of human flesh and they think of nothing but what is beneficial to them and to them alone! How can women love bad boys when they don't give respect anything or anyone? What is there to love in a man who pays no attention to other's needs and feelings? Bad boys simply don't have the capacity to value anyone else but themselves. Again, we ask; "Why THE HELL women love bad boys?
Maybe, instead of pointing out the reasons why women should feel otherwise, we should dissect bad boys in a different light. What makes these men so lovable that they tend to leave nothing for the nice guys?
If you will think about it, their arrogance and cockiness are sometimes interpreted by women as confidence. There is something about the way they carry themselves that even though annoying to us, it's like a perfume they wear that lures the ladies around them. Like bees to a very sweet flower. We can all agree that confident men can be very elusive chick magnets.
Selfishness and being inconsiderate can be mistaken by blinded ladies as power and aggressiveness. Powerful men are like shiny diamonds to women. They are very attractive. And when they see someone as a person who is a go-getter, it adds up to the adrenaline rush. It is inevitable; women love shiny things – their eyes are glued into it.
Whenever they act as a crazy soldier who shoots at anything that moves women see it as courage and bravery. Those men who look for trouble and find mangling body parts on a daily basis are like security blankets to most women. They feel secured with men who will find breaking someone's nose of anyone who blocks his view, as ordinary as drinking coffee and eating sunny side up in the morning.
Bad boys usually look damn good. They've got six packs, biceps and triceps to sport alongside with pearly white teeth, kissable lips and tantalizing eyes. Sadly, most bad boys have been gifted with good genes. And we all know that women love beautiful things.
They seem to be good at something almost everybody loves to do…SEX. I think bad boys are also with the gift of giving pleasure to women whenever they feel like it. There's something in their touch that makes every brush a provider of burning sensations. This may be a myth but that is something quite difficult to prove.
The sad part here is that women tend to learn too late. It takes a lot of hurting and embarrassing situations before they admit the fact that they were dead wrong. They had to feel so much pain first before they get to understand that these bad boys are the ones that need avoidance.
To sum it up, you can actually have the traits of a bad boy without being really bad. Remember that it's the confidence, aggressiveness, power, security, physical wellness and the ability to provide pleasure are the things that most women are looking for in a man. Taking care of yourself and going to the gym can make you look and feel better. Addressing your weaknesses and doing something about these can help you gain confidence. Learning is a way to greatness and power – not only in the corporate world but also in the bedroom. Having these traits can be possible without being such a pain in the ass.