There are a lot of philosophies when it comes to positive thinking, and how it can help one achieve more.
When it comes to relationships, or anything in life, it is important to have a positive outlook on life.
However, do realize that positive thinking alone will not get you far when you are trying to get your ex back.
Positive thinking has its benefits, some of which are: It will help you be able to forgive whatever mistakes were made in the past.
It will allow you also to not focus on the negatives of the relationship, and make you focus more on the parts that made the relationship special, and may enhance the reasons you may have about getting back together with your ex.
In looking positively at your relationship or at the circumstances of the breakup, you may also face reality through positive thinking, and realize that having broken up with your partner is not necessarily a negative thing.
Whichever way you choose to go, positive think will help you focus on the good things of where you are or where the relationship is at, or where you want to be.
It may also be a problem for you, as you assess your situation with your partner.
Because you are focused on the positive things and not dwelling on the negative things, it is possible to not look at the relationship in a realistic manner, giving yourself false hope.
Even with the positive outlook, you still need to assess and see the situation for what it is, and realize that you still need to make decisions and take actions in those decisions.
As great as positive thinking is, it needs to be accompanied by action first to be effective.
I puts in a great state of mind, but then you will also need to actively decide your way forward and what you are willing to do to fix your relationship.