You could be a lady out there and once in your lifetime dated this guy who made your world go round.
But as the relationship went on, problems arose and you thought that the best thing to be done was for both of you to break.
Mostly, after such a break up, you begin to wonder whether you made the right decision in breaking up with him.
Going through a break up is no easy task.
Getting back together is even harder.
Here are some things you must commit to do so that you can get back with your ex: Frequent communication: If you are committed to getting back with your ex, then you should be committed to communicate with him regularly.
Call, text or email regularly to find out how he is doing.
This does not mean you call him all the time.
I would advise at least once in 1 or 2 days will do.
If you show interest in his life, it will be interpreted to him as care and he will slowly share what he is going through.
Communication is very vital in any relationship thus, maintaining one would be good for you.
Call some of the shots: It would be good sometimes if you called some of the shots.
What I mean is that as the man, he has certain responsibilities to carry out.
Mostly, men are the one to take the lady out for a date, buy nice things and make the calls.
But since you want him back it may call for you to do some of those things.
You may consider footing the bill when you go out for lunch.
Once in a while, instead of going out for lunch you can cook for him.
I assure you that will give you marks! Men are attracted to ladies who can cook well.
I am not sure about this, but this could be the reason why you may find some men sleeping with the maid; because the can cook well.
Give him time: Since you are the one who wants to get back with him, give him time to think about it.
It is never easy making a decision to hook up with someone you have just broken up with.
So, give him his time.
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