You just broke up with your boyfriend and you realize that you still love him and you want him back.
If you think that walking up to him and telling him that straight to his face would do the job, no, it wouldn't.
Doing that makes you sound so lame and your ex might be turned off as well.
Before going in any further remember the keys to turn the tables around.
You must first withdraw, accept the situation, and slowly break the communication.
This way he'll miss you too.
There are good ways in contacting your ex but doing it by leaving a message on Facebook or Myspace? It just spells out lame in different languages.
The one thing you might want to avoid is for your ex-boyfriend to ignore you.
Doing this gives him the chance to do so.
He will also realize that you're too scared to call him or even write him an email.
Sending him an SMS is better than the Facebook move but it's still a lame move so don't do it.
Texting can be interpreted in different ways.
There are no signs of emotions in the messages you send.
Just like Facebook, he can also ignore you.
This just makes you wonder if he received your messages or not.
If you and your ex haven't been able to talk in months then it might be a good idea to call him up.
Just make sure that when you call him, act like you're alright and you just want to hang out with him as friends.
Wait for the perfect time to call him.
You might want to do it at a time where he is just sitting around doing nothing.
This time is around 8 or 9pm.
During this time, he might be relaxing and unwinding from all the stress around him.
Pull this off right and he'll talk to you.
Another thing you want to avoid is showing up to him personally.
If you just broke up recently, lie low for a while.
It's no use if he thinks that you're stalking him.
Make sure you meet at the right time.
Accidentally bumping into him might be a good start.
Whatever the situation you may be in, be sure that you feel very confident about yourself.
Don't let him notice that you are missing him badly.
If you think that upon seeing him, you'd burst into tears or you might stutter when you speak to him, avoid him at the moment.
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