This may seem like a bold statement, one that doesn't make you sound like the nicest person on planet earth to be married to, but it is the reality for many married people these days.
In this day in age, we are constantly overwhelmed by outside forces.
There are deadlines at work, deadlines with kids, and just about a million other things, right? So where does that leave us? It leaves us lonely and to be totally honest, bored silly.
It becomes a challenge to look at the same person day in and day out and get excited.
For any married woman, even the totally devoted ones! So are you really bored in your marriage? Here are some questions to ask yourself: 1.
Are you finding it hard to pay attention to what your husband is saying.
This may seem like something kind of silly, but it can be very telling.
When he's trying to talk to you about something you used to love talking about, do you tune him out? 2.
Are you finding reasons to not go out with him socially.
Do you find it annoying to plan nights out with him? Would you rather stay home and take a hot bubble bath? Or would you continuously rather hang out with the kids or your friends instead? 3.
Are you finding yourself less attracted to him? Are you looking at other men more often and letting your mind wander? All of these things may be an indicator that you are less than excited about your better half.
This doesn't mean the end of your marriage or relationship, just means you could spice it up.
For some, that means going outside the marriage, for some it means trying to recreate the passion, and for some it means the end of the relationship.