It is a pretty basic philosophy, but there are two kinds of women in this great big 'ol planet.
There are the women men love and of course the ones that they don't.
Hopefully, you are the one men love, but if not read on and perhaps you can become one by utilizing some of the basic info provided.
The 1st thing to consider to ensure that he will love you the way you'd like to be loved is this; you have got to know what he needs in the relationship and then provide that for him.
This is an all-too-often messed up concept.
Often times, women get the misguided impression that she needs to be totally subservient and do exactly what he wants whether she wants to or not.
Wrong! Most normal guys don't want a woman who allows her man to walk all over her.
The normal guys that are not damaged goods want a woman that can think and make decisions on her own.
On the other side of the coin, a guy just wants his lady to be his biggest, raving fan.
Don't be misguided.
Sex is important, but it's not all a guy wants in a relationship.
If so, then he's probably not your guy anyway.
The idea in a relationship is to form an intimate, lasting, unbreakable bond - right? This cannot be accomplished by simply having non-stop sex.
That would be too easy.
Face it, we're all going to age.
With age comes other issues that might make sex more difficult.
If sex may eventually be taken out of the equation or at least only feasible in less frequent doses, it will be important to make sure there is something in our relationship other than the fun, intimate stuff.
The women that men don't love are the ones that don't have a mind of their own.
In other words, they endlessly try to be whatever they think their guy wants.
Boring! The women that men leave, believe it or not, are the women who try too hard to be whatever he wants.
Your spouse or special guy simply needs to feel special, wanted, admired, respected, & loved.
Make sure it's not fake though.
He'll recognize it, and it won't work OR last.
So, being one of the women men love is easy - feel free to have a mind of your own, but also try to deeply understand him and the things that make him tick.