Do you suspect that your relationship has started to feel a little stale? Instead of excitement or anticipation does every day seem to be the same? Wouldn't it be nice to recapture that excitement you experienced at the beginning of your relationship? Or do you think it is impossible?

Believe me it is not. Out of habit you may have stopped doing or being the person you were in the beginning but you can fall in love all over again with each other and continue on to a lasting and thriving relationship.

The key is to recall what it was that attracted you to each other in the first place. Does it seem so long ago that you've forgotten? All you need to do is ask the question. Now don't start by asking your mate why they still fancy you or why do they love you. Just try asking your father why he loves your mom.

Chances are he'll reply "I don't know? I always have I guess?"
Couples that believe in monogamous relationships are looking for true happiness. However, a very key point to remember whether you are struggling in your relationship or already enjoy a mature and loving one is that no other person can be the key to your happiness. You must work on yourself, dress nicely, work on your personality try not to be selfish and be prepared to go the extra mile.

Find your own happiness first before you look for it in others. Remember you are not looking for a parent but for a partner. They too have their own lives to run and the journey to true love full of everlasting joys is a mutual and not parasitic one.

Success attitude, phenomenal appearance and communication skills all start with two important things: love and respect for yourself. If we can love ourselves and make a concerted effort to look after ourselves we will be a step ahead.

The key is most people fall in love with the person that makes them feel good about themselves. When couples are first getting to know each other they can spend hours together just talking and listening as each person shares their true self in no other way they share with others.

Neither one of you hesitated to compliment or tells how that person made you feel.

If you can regain that passion you can easily start back on the path to rediscovering what makes you a loving couple.

This is the key to rediscovering that you thought you had lost. Start today you don't have a minute to lose.