The Bonds that make a relationship need to be built and maintained in order to keep it healthy and flourishing.
Unfortunately, breakups do happen.
They are stressful and frustrating.
If your relationship breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex.
You need to ask yourself is this an ideal thing to do? Let me explain to you, some of the most successful ways that you can get back at your ex.
This will not only put your ex in an interesting situation, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them.
I will share with you five tips to get back at your ex.
They are also excellent methods for winning your ex back as well.
1.
Be strong.
There is no need to be a victim.
This works especially well in a broken relationship.
Stop begging.
Do not behave in a desperate way.
Allow your ex to believe you have moved on and are doing just fine without them.
2.
Keep communication to a minimum.
This may seem unhelpful initially, but it is one of the most important keys when you want to get back at your ex or you just want to get your ex back.
This allows some serious contemplation as far as your ex is concerned.
They may realise just how much you mean to them.
3.
Be gentle and flexible in your dealings with your ex.
This may surprise them and may inspire them to start rebuilding communication lines that were lacking before.
4.
For goodness sake go out and spend some time with your friends.
It doesn't need to be with someone of the opposite sex! Just go out and enjoy your self.
Its good for you.
This helps to convince your ex that they have lost someone special.
5.
Be yourself.
Sometimes a relationship can smother our self identity.
Remember who you are.
Go and be 'True to Yourself.
' Your ex will recall the reasons he loved you in the beginning.
Your renewed self identity may rub off!