Okay, you want to make up with your spouse but you are unsure.
Here are a couple questions you need to ask yourself before you go about doing so.
Your spouse has decided to talk to you or at least hear what you're willing to say.
If you get this opportunity you need to take advantage of it the best way you can.
Making it with someone can be difficult sometimes because there may be a lot of pride involved.
Don't let this be the issue with you.
Simply ask yourself these two questions before you decide to make up with your spouse.
You need to ask yourself why you want to make up.
Sometimes people want to make up with their spouse for all the wrong reasons.
Maybe he saw him are with someone else and you are jealous.
Maybe you told the other person they would not be able to find someone as good as you.
Maybe you slowly chipped away at the other person's self-esteem making them believe that they were undesirable.
Maybe you just want to have your cake and eat it too.
Whatever the reason is you need to figure it out before you decide to make up with your spouse.
You do not want to make up with your spouse for the wrong reasons, because if you do the same problems will arise in the future.
It will only be a matter of time before you are going through the same things all over again.
You also need to ask yourself is breaking up and making up going to be a consistent pattern in your relationship or just a one-time thing.
There are some people who feed off of emotional rush of breaking up and making up.
To some people this is almost as addictive as drugs! If this is the case, you do not want to go through this pattern with someone over and over again.
If you are serious about making a relationship work someone make sure that breaking up and making up doesn't become a pattern in your relationship.
If you find yourself constantly getting into arguments just so you can make up, then it may be best for both of you to go your separate ways and stop playing with each other's feelings.
Making up can be a magical thing to do, but you must be serious about making it work the second time around.