If you don't know what women want in bed, you're only getting a fraction of the excitement that you should be having in the bedroom.
But the sad truth of the matter is that most men (me included) don't really understand what we're doing wrong.
I actually thought that women wanted an orgasm, I now know that an orgasm is the finale; everything leading up to this determines how good you are in bed.
If you're like I was, you have probably come across a similar situation; thinking that everything is fine in the bedroom only to get the cold shoulder.
In my case she actually told me that I didn't have a clue how to satisfy her properly.
It became apparent (after she pointed it all out to me) that what women want in bed is a lot more than we usually give them.
I'm not trying to sound cryptic here, it's just very difficult to explain but I'll give it a try.
It's like going out for a meal, you get drinks, starter, main course, dessert and more drinks.
So if we put this into bedroom terms - Setting the mood (drinks), Kissing and caressing (starter), Foreplay (main course), intercourse (dessert) followed by more kissing and caressing (more drinks).
This is a very general breakdown but there is something which you must take note of - if you order the same food at a restaurant every time, you'll soon get bored so you really need to try something different from time to time to spice things up.
About foreplay; this really is the main course and it should last a lot longer than everything else.
If you rush through this you will only show her that you are inconsiderate and that you're only thinking of yourself.
All you need to do is listen to her breathing and watch how her body moves, if you're doing things right she'll let you know, if your doing things which seem to be having no effect on her you really should ask her if she likes it.