Do you embody a loving attitude? According to the Law of Attraction made famous by "The Secret," like attracts like.
By that logic, if you are working to attract love, you need to embody love and be loving.
This might sound obvious to you, but let me give you an example.
I was at a networking meeting last week where new members stood to introduce themselves.
One woman I know said she had joined the group because she was new in town, wanted to meet people and make friends.
After the meeting, she called me to say how disappointed she had been because not one person walked up to her to say "welcome" or introduce themselves.
At first I thought she was being ridiculous and her expectations seemed too high.
But when I took time to think about it, I realized how right she was.
So many people have become self-absorbed.
Today, we are stretched to the max, trying to fit in everything.
How can there be time for more? For new friends and experiences? To me, as a dating coach, my clients and others seem more isolated than ever, cocooning to spare themselves from an overly demanding world.
If you are someone with a loving attitude, you might at least introduce yourself and welcome someone new right? How else might you express your loving nature? o Invite someone who is alone to join you for dinner o Check in with an elderly neighbor o Let people cut in front of you in line or while driving o Donate your time to charity o Help a stranger in need As women, we tend to nurture, so I would expect many readers to say that they have listened to a friend or family member in need, brought food to someone ill, or baby sat in a pinch.
That's great! But does your loving attitude shine through as you walk through the grocery store, cross a street or attend a singles dance? Since you send non-verbal signals all the time, be sure you send out loving vibes.
When you walk down the street, do your inner thoughts mostly criticize others or admire them? Do you judge people quickly or give them the benefit of the doubt? To be your most attractive and approachable, you want to BE LOVING.
I'll admit I am as guilty as the next person for being inwardly focused.
But I challenge myself often to be aware of how I interact with others.
Embracing love as a way of moving through life, dramatically increase the opportunities to find love.
Be loving as often as you can.
Share your love with others.
Show your appreciation for those who enrich your life.
Reach out and lend a helping hand for those who express a need, and those who don't.
Let the loving energy in your heart radiate outward and touch all those you come in contact with.
Don't save it all for the right eligible bachelor.
Get your loving energy moving now and see what you attract as a result.