Have you ever been able to figure out what turns men off? Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with a guy and you sense that you have suddenly lost his interest? Did you know at the time what it was that made him disconnect? Sometimes it takes very little to instantly turn a man off; read on to find out what are the most irritating topics to men.
It's funny, but men can lose interest almost instantaneously if a few topics work their way into a conversation. For some reason, men seem to dislike a few specific issues and will immediately withdraw. If you want to keep a man talking, you might want to stay away from the following thoughts.
The first is money. Men can be very protective of their financial status and are quick to shut off and defend themselves if a woman seems to be overly interested in this information. They do not want a woman giving them the third degree to see if he is financially suitable for her and her future. They also are constantly aware that they might not live up to a woman's expectations when it comes to money. If you want to keep from turning a man off, don't worry about his money. You won't run the risk of losing his attention if you just consider this topic off limits.
The second topic is emotions. This includes both your emotions and your man's. It is no secret that men can keep their feelings locked up inside indefinitely, but they also shy away from any deep emotional conversations. They do not want to be put in the position of hearing all of your earth shattering emotional revelations in the beginning of a relationship. It makes them uncomfortable and it makes you appear needy. Leave the feelings discussion for a future conversation, the way distant future.
Finally, gossip is not good. Your guy will be keenly aware of the way you talk about other people that are not around. Not only is this a very unattractive reflection on yourself, criticizing others makes your guy wonder when he might be the victim of your insults. Just stay away from speaking ill of other people; you will appear more upbeat and well-adjusted if you focus on making positive comments.
This is an outline of the most annoying topics that you can approach when talking to a man. Make a conscious effort from the start to avoid these and you will find that you will never turn a man off ever again.
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