- 1). Update your wardrobe. Looking tastefully fresh will attract him and boost your confidence. Take a trusted friend or relative along with you to help you make stylish yet age-appropriate choices. If you have a teen to twenty-something daughter, drag her along. She'll have an eye for what is fashionable and be the first to tell you if it is not suitable for a woman of your "maturity level."
- 2). Strike up a conversation. Rather than waiting for him to approach you, find a reason to talk to him. Try to stay away from inane comments about the weather. Instead, ask him a question that requires an answer to get the dialog rolling. Tell him your brother's birthday is approaching and you'd love to know where he got his shirt. Or, ask him, "Don't you (work/go to school/live) at (fill in the blank)?"
- 3). Touch him casually. When you are having a conversation, lightly place your hand on his arm as you laugh or let him in on a secret.
- 4). Give a big, natural smile with your teeth showing each time you pass him. Make sure you look into his eyes, as well. This body language will give him the message that you are a warm, receptive person.
- 5). Have a life. Find things that interest you and that you feel passionate about and get involved in them. This makes you interesting and attractive, and provides opportunities to meet men who are like-minded.