If you want to bring your ex back, then you need to first start with the key elements which make up every relationship! These include trust and loyalty, because without these pillars, the relationship will always fall apart.
But how do you build these things back up again? Read on to find out the three little-known secrets which will bring your ex back...
Secret #1: Being predictable Let's say that you just went through a divorce.
Your partner is suspicious of you and doesn't really trust you.
This is because you have been unpredictable before.
Perhaps you would "fly off the handle" randomly, and the next minute you would be telling him/her that you love them.
But, if you want to bring your ex back, you need to stop being so unpredictable and you need to start having GOOD common patterns which your ex can recognize as relationship material.
This means that you should NOT be predictable in the wrong things, such as insulting your ex, over-reacting, calling them 1000 times etc...
But rather, you should be predictable in always pushing yourself ahead, trying your best, listening, etc...
When you become predictable in the right things, this helps your ex to gain the trust for you again, because there will be something more constant for him/her to rely on this time around.
Secret #2: Keep the communication OPEN You may hide things from your partner, or your ex, out of the fear that they just "won't get it" or thinking that he/she may not understand.
Eventually you end up telling so many "white lies", that you begin lying to yourself.
BUT, your partner can recognize these lies and knows when you are not being true to yourself, and thus sees a lack of proper communication going on.
Communication is important for any relationship, and the first things you want to be communicating to your ex after a breakup, are signs that you are in fact changing.
This is important to show your ex that you do in fact care, and to show them that you were in fact listening to their needs and YOUR own.
Without change, things would just stay the same, INCLUDING the problems, so always communicate the changes you are making to your ex.
Secret #3: Make your words match your message The last secret is to simply make sure everything you say is being formed into the appropriate action.
If you really want to build the trust back FAST, and have your partner feel comfortable around you, you just need to ensure that your actions match your words.
This means that you will not be flaking out on promises, and that you also will keep your word under ALL circumstances.
This will prove to your ex that you are the right kind of "relationship" material for him/her, and will help bring your ex back.