You are already hurt and confused about "How to Get Your Ex Back Without Tricks".
You need to know how to get your ex back before it's too late, so stop playing.
Begging pleading, and blowing up the text and email are doing nothing but convincing them that they did the right thing.
Stop everything your are doing.
This is only pushing your ex further away from you.
Stop all contact for now and let you both clear your heads and remember why you were together in the first place.
This will also stop you from making more mistakes.
First deal with your emotions.
Cry to your mother, friend, or yourself but let it out.
If it stays in you will make more mistakes like begging, and pleading.
This is not attractive and will push your ex away.
Stop all contact from your ex for a few weeks..
If there are children involved or you have to see each other be polite and act as if you are doing great.
Send a letter of Apology.
A letter is the best thing to send after a week when things calm down.
Apologize for your part.
(Except responsibility).
I should have put you first.
, I should have listened.
, I should have talked to you.
, or I should not have taken you for granite.
Move on With Your Life.
Go out with your friends and learn something new.
This will make them wonder how your doing without them and give you time to miss you and remember why you were together.
Stay Groomed and Treat Yourself Good.
People only respect those that respect themselves.
Just like when you first met.
The same things it took to get them is the same things it will take to keep them.
Now when the few weeks are up asked them out.
This is your new beginning and they don't even know it.
Don't worry if it seems like they moved on.
Your relationship is still your advantage.
I don't care how serious things became.
(Not including violence and harmful acts) If the issues that happen come up and they will.
Gently say that you apologize for your part and think that they made the right choice.
You don't know what got into you.
Can you forgive me? Then move on.
Remember also what started the problems in the first place so that you can address it and move on.
A break up does not happen over night.
And it wasn't one persons fault.
Someone dropped the ball or someone ran with it.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
There are no winners in a break up.
No worries.
You will be able to fix the broken heart and repair trust but you first have to be able to walk away from it all.
I know this sounds crazy but I've experienced this the hard way and when your on the other side of the problem you both will be stronger and know that by you weathering this storm you can both face any obstacle together.
The mere fact that you will win and fight for your ex will be lifetime points for ever in your favor.
How to get your ex back without tricks is what will make them respect you and keep your relationship from being temporary.