So you've broken up with your girlfriend.
As you may have already figured out, there are almost as many opinions about what you should do to get your her girlfriend back as there are people you'll talk to.
Some people or friends may even have two opinions on what you should say, who you should talk to, or how you should approach her.
Some will tell you that jealousy is the way to go.
Others will tell you that giving her gifts or calling or emailing her is the best way.
So which one actually works, and what should you do to guarantee that you'll be successful in getting her to come back to you? Believe it or not, apologizing to your ex is the only way you can guarantee that she'll want to get back with you.
Most men overlook this fact and do everything else, but completely ignore apologizing to their ex.
Of course, most men aren't successful in getting them back, either.
Once you apologize to her, the next thing you want to do is not to ask for her to take you back, but instead to simply call her and say you're sorry for everything that happened.
Think hard about things you may have done that have made her want to cut loose from you.
Think about what she said last when you two were together.
Did she mention something that you always do that she can't live with? You may want to be specific about what it is that she doesn't like about you and tell her what you've been doing to fix it.
The next step is the most crucial, but often times the hardest and most ignored; you have to forget about her.
It may seem completely contrary to what you want to do, especially since the title of this article discusses how to get her back.
Trust me, once you tell her that you're perfectly fine with the breakup and that you think the two of you could use some time apart, she'll absolutely melt.
This will build up a lot of anticipation, wonder, and curiosity on her part.
These feelings will definitely work to your advantage, but you're going to have to be careful employing them, as they can easily backfire.
When done right, however, ignoring a woman can be the strongest weapon in your arsenal, and will almost guarantee that she'll try to call you to check up on you and see how you're doing.
That's when you move to the next step.
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