Are you looking to have the romance back in your relationship? Just like it was when the two of you first go together? Take these steps and chances are you will find the love that was lost.
1 - Be patient.
This is not the time to rush back into the relationship but rather I time to build up interest between the two of you.
When you see him, look him in the eyes so he knows that you are talking to him.
Keep the conversation simple and respectful.
2 - Take the time to talk to him whenever the opportunity presents itself.
You need to keep the conversation brief and talk about small points of interest.
Try to be a bit mysterious which men find appealing.
At a party or other gathering, if someone comes into the room that you know, leave your ex and go and talk to your friend.
This will indicate that although you enjoy talking to him, he is not your only priority.
Also, take this opportunity to flirt a little with other people in the room.
3 - Make sure you take good care of yourself.
You want to look and smell good, maybe wear clothing that you normally wouldn't wear or would only wear out on a date.
Taking care of yourself shows that you have confidence in your appearance and respect for yourself and your body.
Men are visual and taking care to look after yourself can be very sexy and attractive to the opposite sex.
4 - Don't be afraid to stroke his ego.
Give him a couple of honest compliments.
You want him to feel good when ever he is around you.
Try to bring up times when you were together that were special or memorable as a way to remind him of the good times you had together.
This is another opportunity to help him see why he would want to get back together with you.
5- It is important that you become his friend again.
Open up to him and if his feelings get rekindled for you, he will let you know.
Remember, take things slowly.
Don't act needy and don't make any negative or hurtful comments.
You want to act cool and let him pursue you.
If you are meant to get back together with your ex it is important that you act in a way that makes it appealing for him to want to get back with you.
These steps are only the beginning in winning your ex back.