Let's take a scenario that's very common among many women around the world - the relationship with a new guy starts out very well, with him basically doing everything and making plans for the two of you.
But after a few weeks, he suddenly loses interest in the relationship and you begin to argue.
Before you know it, you've broken up and you're left with nothing.
Sound familiar? It's easy to pin the blame on him, but what most women don't know is that they're just as much to blame as he is for the breakup - sometimes even more so.
The thing is that many women make many common mistakes that instantly turn any attraction their men may have for them into an "Eww" feeling that makes him want to withdraw.
See if any of these big mistakes apply to you: -You beg, nag, or try to convince him that staying with you is the best thing for him to do.
-You try to correct him whenever he does something you don't like, sometimes to the point that you won't stop until your "lesson" sinks in.
-You totally lose your composure whenever you feel he doesn't want to see you.
-You call or get in touch with him several times a day, just to make sure you spend enough time together.
-You get upset whenever he doesn't get in touch with you for a while, and try to tell him to keep in touch more often.
-And other "nagging" behavior.
Remember that all men ultimately want to have a partner who's fun, sexy, and - most importantly when they're pondering a long-term relationship - easy to be with.
Making any of the above-mentioned mistakes makes you look entirely the opposite of all those good qualities, and immediately triggers the "withdrawal" instinct in him.
It's simple, really - most of the times when you think he's doing something horribly wrong, such as not getting in touch with you at least once a day, it's not a big deal for him.
While it's the opposite for most women, this usually doesn't do any damage to the relationship - until, of course, they decide to confront him about it.
And he'll be left wondering just why you're being so paranoid over such a small thing.
So instead of wasting your time wondering how to improve him or your relationship, just stop focusing on the problems and keep the relationship interesting for both of you (and not just you!).
Make every instance of seeing each other fun for him, and he'll always be thinking about settling down with you.
After all, who wouldn't want to settle down with someone as fun as you?