Following are a few tips about how to get back a guy after a breakup.
Having your guy break up with you can be a hard thing to go through.
You may not even feel like life has any meaning without him in it but hang in there because things will get better.
It may not be easy to get a guy back but it is possible if you know what steps to take.
It is always easier to work things out while the relationship is still going but for some reason your ex has decided to end things instead of trying to fix the problems.
All hope is not lost because it is possible to get a guy back even after he breaks up with you.
It is vital that you keep a positive attitude at this time if you really do want him back.
You have to be certain about why you want him back because wanting him back just so you can see if you can get him back is not a good motive.
Make certain that you have a really good understanding of why you want the relationship back.
Another thing you have to keep in mind is that trying to get your guy back will not always work although sometimes it will.
While a lot of couples can and do make up and move forward, there are times when you just can't get that magic back.
Whatever the case may be, you will know that you tried your best to get your guy back.
First of all you need to be sure to keep your emotions under control.
No guy wants to be with someone who is out of control.
If you are calling him and begging him to take you back for example, you are doing more damage to the relationship.
Let's just say he is starting to miss you but you call and act all crazy, you will just be reinforcing his decision to end things with you.
So again, keep yourself and your emotions under control.
Don't sit around wondering what he is doing or where is at because you will just make yourself depressed and you will never get him back that way.
Go out with your friends, live your life, read a good book, whatever it takes to help you keep your mind off of him for right now.
Make sure you are taking care of yourself everyday.
Fix your hair, put on makeup, dress up in something that makes you feel wonderful.
The better you feel about yourself right now the more self confidence you are going to have and that is critical to getting him back.
I know how hard it can be to let go but it is in the letting go that you increase your chances of getting him back.
If you stay completely away from him right now, he will begin to miss you.
No phone calls, emails, texts, etc.
Don't go where you know he is going to be because your best chance of getting him back is to make him wonder where you are and what you are doing.
He will start to miss you and it won't be long before he starts trying to get in touch with you.
This is really important too.
When he does call, never jump at the chance to see him.
Let him know that you are really busy because this will make him see that you really are the great person he fell for in the first place.
Take things slow and when you do see him you will want to look your best but you don't want to have any physical contact.
At the most a little hug when you say goodbye and this is guaranteed to make him crazy.
If you can stay away from him for a while and then play hard to get when he does start calling you, you should be able to get him back fairly easily.
Sometimes though things just aren't meant to be so be prepared for the relationship to really be over.
There is always still a chance you can get him back in the future.
You really can get your guy back if you take it slow and keep your emotions under control.
Keep on being who you are and make sure you always look the best you can because that will help you to feel your best.
Chances are really good that he will call you and when he does be certain to make him work to win YOU back.
It can be fairly easy to get a guy back when you have a step by step manual for getting him and keeping him and that is just what you will find when you read the magic of making up.
Not only will it help you get him back but it will show you how to keep him.
For now, go out and have some fun and take care of yourself.