Does it feel like you are constantly thinking about your ex girlfriend and even though you know that it would be better for you to not think about her, it just does not seem like it is something that you are going to be able to do? Well, if that is what it feels like for you right now, then you might be looking for a little bit of help to get your mind off of her. As hard as it may be to think that you can just kind of turn a switch and suddenly stop thinking about your ex girlfriend, that is how it happens for most men when they finally decide that they are going to do whatever they have to in order to stop thinking about their ex girlfriend.

You may not be able to totally get her off of your mind at first, but that is okay. As long as you can temper your desire to think about your ex girlfriend and slowly lower the amount of time that you spend dwelling on the past, you should eventually be able to get to the point where you either very rarely think about her or you don't think about her at all.

Here are 3 of what I would consider the best ways to get your mind off of your ex girlfriend:

1) Indulge yourself in your favorite activities especially the ones that you could not when she was around.

If you had a hobby that your ex girlfriend complained about and she took you away from it, now is the time for you to do what you want to do and go back to your favorite activities. This can help you to get lost in what you love to do and that can make it easier to stop thinking about your ex girlfriend.

2) Go back to hanging out with the guys again.

Most men end up spending most of their free time hanging out with their girlfriend and doing stuff with mostly just her and when you do that, you can end up feeling like you don't have any time to hang out with your guy friends. Now is the time where you can do that.

3) Immerse yourself in the singles scene.

You might be thinking about your ex girlfriend a lot because you don't really have enough chances to be around the kind of women that can make you totally forget about your ex girlfriend. Now that you are single again, you can immerse yourself in the singles scene and just have some fun. You probably won't be thinking about your ex girlfriend too much if you are with a new woman.