Love is something difficult to understand.
That's why relationships go bad sometimes.
You're probably suffering a lot just after the breakup.
Even more if you're still in a passionate love with your ex.
I discovered for you the four main reasons why women leave their husbands: 1) My husband doesn't make any effort for me: It's the most important reason why women leave husbands.
By effort, you know what I mean if you're married.
If your wife realizes that she's making all the work for your couple, then she'll certainly say to herself: " Why should I bother more for this lazy man?" What can you do? For example, you can help her in preparing the dinner, helping her in the housework, or spending time together! Whatever you do, you should show her your respect and care! 2) He doesn't love me anymore: Without affection, a marriage is no longer a successful one.
Of course, after 30 years of married life, the things tend to fall down a bit, but you shouldn't let this happen! You should ask yourself how to keep your marriage exciting! And you know what? It's so simple: do you remember the first magical days you were spending with your wife together? What were you doing on these days? Yes, you just have to do the same! 3) He never listens to what I say: Second most important factor of women who leave their husbands.
If you don't listen to what she says, or only acting like you were, then she will feel really disrespected.
You should really care about what he says.
It can reveal to be really important! Instead of you answering to her questions with a stupid blah-blah, ask her about her day, then pay big attention at what she says, and try to make some funny and cute commentaries! After she finishes, ask other questions like "And what did you do after that?" Try to make the conversation lively! 4) He cheats on me: That's an easy one to understand, and is certainly not rocket science! If your wife catches you having an affair, then your relationship is nearly done.
he'll start to think negatively both about you and herself! If you're cheating on your wife, stop right now! You'll see that if you care more about her, you'll be much happier than with these other women.
Only you can save your marriage, and if there is a problem, you need to make the effort to resolve it!