So your ex doesn't understand you and is refusing to accept you.
Well I know you are experiencing a lot of pain right now.
Not getting the acceptance of a loved one is indeed something really painful.
It's much worse than physical pain.
If you want them to understand your situation and accept you back, here's what you need to do..
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Let Go Let your ex go before you pull them back.
Write a hand written letter telling them that the breakup was the best thing for both of you.
Your breakup was indeed the best thing for both of you.
Your separation will increase both your awareness and the bond will increase.
If you guys have been dating, you could end up getting married as a result of this.
Moreover this will stop them ignoring you.
Writing this one letter will help you gain their acceptance.
Accept Accept your faults.
Tell your ex that you are sorry for your faults.
Don't blame others or offer excuses.
It's childish and ignorant to not accept the fact that we control our lives.
You control your life and your environment.
No one can hurt you except you.
Connect Connect with your ex deeply and in an emotional level.
You connect by truly caring about them.
Care about everyone and talk like a person who truly cares about their life.
You have to care for everybody but it doesn't mean that you must go around helping people by sacrificing yourself.
You win and then they win.
Listen to what they have to say and have your say.
Ask yourself this question: If you were their well-wisher, what'd you say? Listen and Voice.
That's how you connect with others.
Define Your Identity Introspect your life and figure out your life purpose.
Find out where you want to be in the next five years and work towards getting there.
"No fear.
No distractions.
The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide.
" Start doing the things you love.
There's no time but now to start doing those great things.
This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time.
Solve Problems Find out why your relationship ended in the first place.
Find out the problems and try to solve those problems.
Solving those problems is an act of maturity and courage.
You are being your best-self by being mature.
If you are strong enough to solve the problem that was caused in the relationship, your ex will feel that you've changed and will accept you back.