When you break up with a woman and you realize that you want to get her back more than anything else in the world, you are pretty much open to try just about anything that you can if you think it will help you to get her back.
That can be a very bad thing.
You can just as easily end up making all of the wrong choices as you can make the right ones, and you really have to be careful to make sure that you are not heading down the path of no return.
It's just as likely that you will end up making her want nothing to do with you as it is that you will make her want to get back together with you.
So, is it a hopeless cause to want to win back an ex girlfriend? No, there are many things that you can avoid so that you do have a much better chance of doing the right things to win her back.
After all, if you know what NOT to do, it's a lot more likely that you will end up doing the right stuff to win back your ex girlfriend.
Here are 3 things that you NEVER want to do to try and get back an ex girlfriend: 1.
You never want to get to the point where she is all that you think about.
It might sound kind of romantic that you would think about her all of the time, but when you really see it for what it is, it is nothing more than an obsession.
And as we all know, being obsessed over a woman is never a good thing.
Not only is it unhealthy for you and takes away from your chances of feeling happy, but it is also one of those red flags that women look for so that they know to stay away from you.
And you do not want to make your ex girlfriend want to stay away, you want to get her back, right? 2.
You never want to make your ex girlfriend feel guilty about the fact that the relationship ended.
Trying to make someone feel guilty about a relationship breaking up is just another way of lashing out, and nothing constructive usually comes out of that.
If you feel as though she is the one to blame, keep it to yourself.
And really, no break up is all on one person.
There are two people involved, so to try and put it all on her is not exactly a fair way to look at the situation.
3.
You never want to try and be just friends with an ex girlfriend if you really want her back.
While it is okay to stay friendly and in speaking terms with an ex girlfriend, if you want to get her back- you can't let yourself fall into the friend zone with her.
It might seem like the right way to go about it, but more often than not, when you end up in the friend zone, it is a permanent thing.
Sure, there are things that you can do to dig yourself out of that friend zone, but why do that to yourself?