When your ex girlfriend broke up with you, it was hard for you to understand her reason. She said she needed space. That was alright with you. You thought you had been around enough women to know that they can be flighty and get all emotional about things. Give her a few days and she would be back to normal. That is what you thought, but now she will not even communicate with you and you are afraid she is gone for good. You do not know what you did to upset her, but you would do anything to win back her love for good. If you feel this way about her, you can get her back. Just have some patience, determination, and use the best technique to get your ex girlfriend back.

I know you are afraid of losing her, but the best thing you can do right now is to stay away from her. You already know that she will not communicate with you, so any attempt to call, email or text her will not do any good. If you attempt to bribe her with flowers, cards, and gifts, it will only make things worse. So why not just ignore her and see what happens. To make this effective, you need to disappear for a few weeks. Go do your favorite things. Fishing, playing golf or what ever you enjoy. But whatever you decide, do not make dating other women part of it.

Your ex is going to hear about your activities if you are out with your buddies doing what interests you, and it will make her think you have accepted the breakup and are going on with your life. She will respect you for this because it will make you appear strong and mature to her. But if she hears you are dating other women, she will never let you forget it. Even when you get your ex girlfriend back, your dating will always be something for her to use against you. So, go out with your buddies and let her see you having a good time without her. This alone may make her have second thoughts about the breakup, and she will see that losing you has caused a big void in her life.

When she becomes aware of this void, she will be anxious to fill it. The only thing that will fill the void is to get her ex back. She will be calling you and, although you want her back, making her eat a little crow will be good for her. Start dating her again and treat her courteously and kind, but do not tell her you love her right away. She will be wanting to hear you say those words again, but if you want to win her love for good, make her see that you are all the man she can handle.