If you want to know how to create a happy marriage then you have asked one of the most important questions in the world! A happy marriage is a blessing, it is good for your health, it is good for your children, it is good for society and of course it is good for your own happiness and sense of worth! Many people however do not seem to know how to keep a marriage happy.
The first stages are usually wonderful when you are in love and the world is full of light, life and promise; then there may be some problems.
Perhaps one of you gets laid off and money becomes an issue.
Perhaps the connection you once had seems to be fading as you both grow as people but do not seem to grow together.
Or maybe you cannot even pinpoint what is wrong apart from busy lives and not enough time to spend together? In any case it is never too late to insert a little happiness into a marriage but applying just a few small tips into every day life.
Things like saying "thank you" more often and my listening with your undivided attention to your spouse and importantly ...
even when you are busy ...
taking time to go on a proper DATE again even though you are married! (this works wonders).
The enemies of happiness also must be banished.
Resentment, keeping score over petty issues, feeling that you should not be trying because your spouse it not trying and so forth.
Negativity is a marriage killer! How to create a happy marriage is about YOU starting to take actions in even the smallest way by putting some money into the goodwill bank it WILL be added to by your husband or wife.
This will start gathering interest at a startling rate and your marriage will thrive and grow in love and happiness.