Why is it that everybody seems to give you advice after you go through a break up? They are quick with their little sayings, and while they are their best to comfort you, it just doesn't work.
What you really need are tips for getting your ex back.
Well, you have come to the right place! Here are some things that will help you get back together.
The first thing you need to do is sort out all of your feelings.
This is going to take some time, but it's necessary to have a clear head before you move forward with any plan to win back an ex.
Time will do a lot to get your emotions under control, but if you are still having problems then you may need to see a counselor.
During this time, don't contact your ex at all.
If you try contacting them before you have a clear head, then you run the risk of saying or doing something you'll regret later.
The other reason for not contacting them is that they also need some time and space to get a hold of their emotions.
It can be really easy to shut yourself off from the rest of the world after a break up, but don't do it.
No matter how hard it is, you need to take care of yourself mentally and physically.
Go out and have fun with your friends and go on with living your life.
For the record, there is no reason to feel guilty about having a good time.
After you have things back under control, then you can get in touch with your ex.
Set up a face-to-face meeting so you can talk about things.
This is not meant to be a date, so don't lead your ex to believe otherwise.
Your chances of getting your ex back will depend, in large part, how well you do these steps.