I am familiar with many stories of girls sensing that their boyfriend is about to leave them but not being sure and as a result getting shocked when he does leave them.
You don't have to be in any more uncertainty.
I'm going to share with you the obvious signs which will alert you that you are at the very end of your relationship and will be fully prepared for him to end it.
The best thing to do is to dump him before he has a chance to, it will give you the upper hand and perhaps even give you a chance of getting back with him (if that is what you want).
Here are the four sure fire signs you need to look for that your boyfriend is about to finish off the relationship:
- Less Contact: He calls you much less and is spending much less time with you.
He is always making excuses not to be with you, such as hanging out with his friends or having work and family commitments. - No Surprises: He hasn't done something spontaneous and creative for you in a while.
Nothing has surprised you in a while.
It means he is no longer putting effort in the relationship and has lost interest.
His efforts are now being spent elsewhere but not on you. - Less Sexual Communication: Your sex life is deteriorating.
You are not having as much sex as you once used to have.
When you do have sex (probably when he is drunk and horny or just bored) you notice he is not putting in any effort and making you feel pleasure and is just focusing on his pleasure.
It is more of a robotic action on his part.
The kissing and touching has also minimised, there certainly is no passion in it.
This is a very bad sign. - Decoys: This one is a bit confusing for some girls, but I can tell you as a guy I know EXACTLY what it means (as I done it before and know so many guys who have).
Most guys are seriously thinking of leaving their girlfriends and actually want to but are afraid.
They are afraid of being guilty and some of them are afraid of being alone.
However, when they do find someone they will dump you.
While they are in that building up phase (subtly exploring other options and getting reacquainted with their single life without you knowing) they will of course do the above.
But they will also hide their tracks.
They will unexpectedly do some extraordinary sweet things (take you to a nice dinner, buy you flowers, book a holiday or maybe even write you a sweet poem).
You will think that all is well, but what these actions are meant to be are decoys to put you off track so you don't realise what is happening.
Finally, when it does happen and he drops the bombshell you will be in total shock thinking all was great.
Be very careful of this one, its a deceitful trick.