Your ex has disappeared and has cut off all contact with you.
It's hard to tell if it's completely over, and if there is no chance left to get your ex back.
You sit worrying about whether or not this is it, and if this will really be the end to everything.
But, I am telling you that it doesn't have to be, because there are plenty of things to consider before you lose all hope.
Here's what you need to do to find out if your ex will speak to you again: • Assess The Breakup Situation - Why did you break up? The most serious breakup situation would be something like adultery/infidelity; in which case your ex will need a lot of space and time to heal before they can even consider forgiving you or taking you back.
If that was not the reason for the breakup, and disagreements / arguments/ misunderstandings etc..
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were the reason, then your ex is more likely to speak to you again, because they are simply hurt and want to see some change.
All you have to do, then is give some time, and make some major changes so that when you do contact your ex (which with time, they will allow you to), they will be open to looking for adequate changes.
• Don't Be Yourself - It's quite clear that by being yourself, you have pushed your ex away.
Your ex is looking for you to be your best self..
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the person who is good, understanding, patient, trustworthy, etc..
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That person needs to surface more consistently in order for your ex to want to speak to you again.
This means that you will have to do a personal overhaul, wherein you re-create your attitude, morals, patience, understanding and listening abilities, self-esteem and overall self to be desirable to your ex again.
You may think that it's not worth it to change if your ex is not around to see it, but your ex has left to give you the chance to change, because they feel you can't do such around them.
So don't waste this chance! • Play The Dating Game - In order for you to even get your ex back, or to get them interested in speaking to you again, you are going to have to court your ex better than you did when you first met.
This means you will have to impress them, play hard to get, create intense attraction, prove that you are a great lover etc..
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all over again.
You can do this even when there is distance between you and your ex, by socializing with people in your ex's social circle, and improving your social status (by getting a better job/raise..
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doing fun or amazing activities in your spare time etc..
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); so that your ex will come to hear about you again, and will want to speak to you again.