Fear is an imagined or real emotion caused by a feeling of probable pain, rejection, or an unpleasant outcome.
It hinders your abilities of settling for a discrete decision when you take a certain course of action.
In cases of a break up, the fear of denial is the most common.
This is the most unpleasant outcome everyone, including you, wishes to avoid.
The following are simple and practical steps that will help you in overcoming your fears and give you the inspiration to get your ex boyfriend back.
Choose to stay strong The first step would be to make an intentional and deliberate choice that you want to step out of your imagination and face reality.
Then, have a positive attitude that no matter what, you will try your best and get your ex boyfriend back.
Determination plus a little faith does work miracles.
However, fear may hold you back and prevent you from moving on with your life.
Overcoming negative thoughts, that disguises them as fear, will help you cover milestones towards replacing the destructive thoughts with constructive thoughts.
Examine the factors that led to your break up Try to think about what led to your breakup.
This is usually achieved by narrowing the things that most probably resulted in the break up.
Was it lack of communication, did you stop caring, did you change your dressing and so on.
After the inner soul-searching, you can always come up with the best explanations that lead to your current predicament.
Let not your imaginations of fear pull you down but instead let the determination and positive attitude drive you.
Be a positive thinker Most probably you have heard that positive thinking brings positive results while negative thinking brings disaster.
Do not waste your energy focusing on the negatives of your coming together.
This may include such thoughts like, he will not accept me back, or he hates me more than anything else in the world.
Instead, embrace the benefits that you stand to gain once you two get together.
Fear tends to act like a conspicuous scar, which is always there to remind you of that awful moment when things didn't work according to plan.
On the contrary, use it to your advantage by working on improving your personality such that you will not again be left vulnerable in case of another similar situation.
Say Hi Saying hi, is another great step.
It shows that you are not harboring the anger or the frustrations that came with the break up.
Additionally, it creates an impression that you are happy and willing to move on.
Once in a while try to get close to him but don't show him that you so desperately to have him back.
Up to this far end you could have built enough courage and all you have to do is invite him to talk to you.
Be the girl that he first fell for.