Let's get to work! Of course every marriage is different and marriages fail for different reasons.
So In this article I'm not even going to focus on specific reasons because the list could go on forever and might not even apply to your situation.
The bottom line is, you and your spouse are having a pretty rough time right now and you want to know what it's going to take to save your marriage.
I will only say this about the signs of your marriage being over.
Whatever they may be specifically, they all boil down to one reason: The environment that originally attracted you to one another has either changed or isn't valued any more.
So you have a choice; you can either keep doing what you are doing which isn't working.
Or you can hope the problem goes away on its own over time, which it absolutely won't.
Or you can take powerful action now to reverse the course you are on.
This seems like the only logical choice because time is not on your side.
To make a new beginning and start to work saving your marriage, you will need to do the following:
- Don't give up no matter what
- Admit that what you are doing right now isn't working
- Be calm and confident with your spouse and get control of negative emotions
- Be open minded and willing to take new and very specific action