Are you too nice to people? This is beyond the nice guy vs.
bad boy concept and all that.
I mean are you too nice to people in general because you're afraid of how they'll respond to you? Women hate this quality.
If they sense that you're genuinely nice, they're okay with that.
If they sense that you're nice because you're afraid of her reaction if you're not - there's no way she'll respect you.
Years ago I didn't think I had this problem - but then I noticed something about myself (and I know a lot people will relate to this).
I found that when I chatted in online forums or chat rooms - I suddenly became a little mean.
I learned a lot about myself at that time.
And then I realized - wait - I wasn't actually being mean, I just knew that the people don't know who I was - and therefore I wasn't afraid of their reaction.
You see this all the time online.
People act like total jerks to each other in internet forums and chat rooms.
It's mainly because they have no fear of the other person's reaction.
Now I wasn't blatantly mean just for the hell of it - but if someone said something stupid - I'd call them out on it.
I was like, "Wow, this is a lot more natural.
" Nice isn't natural.
A lot of nice is based on fear.
Mean for the sake of being mean isn't natural either.
Honesty is natural - and women know that.
If you're too nice to her - it's as if you're lying to her.
Start being honest with women even it means that you have to stop being so nice and they'll begin to respect you for it.