Breakups are hard for both parties and if you just broke up with your girl, then you're probably thinking of ways on how to get your girlfriend back.
Things will be hard at first, especially with the no contact rule, but it's necessary.
It's true that there's no guarantee a relationship can last forever and there are situations which will compel us to make certain decisions.
Sometimes, breaking up or cooling off seem like the best idea, for now.
But it doesn't really mean that it's the end.
When you're thinking about trying to get your girlfriend back, you need to be positive and think that it can really happen.
Do you think all the good times you've had count for something? If your answer is yes, then you can still talk to each other provided you've given each other enough time to heal.
When you've got your emotions under control and you're pretty sure that enough time has passed, then talk to your girl.
But before you do, there are some things you need to consider.

• Things are going to be different now because she is no longer your companion.
  
• If you've hurt her and if the break up is recent, then you need to be able to handle the fact that she's going to be vulnerable.
  Take some time and really think if it's the right time to talk to her again.
  
• Don't have high hopes that she'll welcome you with open arms.
  It's better to call her or send her messages first telling her you want to see her again.
  To avoid looking desperate, don't call her just to tell her that you want to see her immediately.
  
• If she agreed to meet with you, stay away from places that would remind why the relationship ended.
  
• She's not your girlfriend now, so there are things that you can't talk about with her.
  Try to avoid saying things that would remind her of the past or make both of you feel sad and awkward.
  

Remember that we all make mistakes.
It may seem difficult now, with all the things you need to consider, but you shouldn't lose hope.
If you want to let her know how you feel and how much you regret losing her, then the correct words are what you need.
Saying the right things can really make all the difference.
I'm sorry If she left because of something you did, then apologize.
Accept what you've done and tell her you don't blame her for leaving you.
It won't happen again When you've accepted what you've done and apologized for it, tell her that it won't happen again.
You've learned your lesson and that losing her was the hardest thing that's ever happened to you.
You need to assure her that this time would be different.
It's so hard without you Tell her just how you felt when she left.
You've told her that this is the hardest thing you've been through.
Let her know that without her, you were miserable and you felt helpless because you just want her back in your life.
If you want to get your girlfriend back, then remember that words are essential.
Saying the right things can mean getting your ex back or losing her forever.
As long as you choose your words correctly, then you can say a lot.
Just remember to remain true and honest.