If you want to get your ex girlfriend back and really think that things could work out between the two of you this time around, here are 3 top tips to help you get what you want.
1.
Do Not Beg.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back because you truly believe that your relationship has potential to become something greater, there are certain things that you will need to avoid in order to do so, one of which would be begging.
It would be very important for you to keep your dignity right now, especially if she is the one who broke up with you.
Begging and showing other signs of desperation will do nothing but make your ex girlfriend pity you - remember that - and this will only make you look less attractive in her eyes and in the eyes of all of your mutual acquaintances.
Even if she does get back together with you after you beg her to, you should know that it wouldn't last long anyway because the reconciliation only happened out of pity more than anything else.
2.
Do Not Play Games.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, don't play any games with her.
Games are for kids.
So, if you try to make her jealous by dating other girls that you aren't really interested in, then you could lose your chances of fixing things with her forever.
If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, it would be important to act like a mature adult at all times.
If she sees you with someone else, she might think you have moved on and then move on herself, but if you tell her you did it to make her jealous, she will never trust you again.
3.
Do Not Hold Her to Ransom.
Threatening your ex, as well as crying and screaming for her attention, may pressure or manipulate her into getting back together with you, but emotional blackmail will merely reinforce the reasons why she left you in the first place.
And, in the long run, this is exactly what will make you lose her for good.
Overall, you cannot just rely on desperation to get what you want.
All of the aforementioned things are things that guys in high school might do to get their ex girlfriends' attention and while it might work for teenagers, it won't work now that you're older.