How to get your ex-girlfriend back is more like a mind game. If she walked out on you for what appears to be absolutely no reason, don't act too confused and bewildered. Logic says that there's a reason why she did that and you just don't know what it is at this particular point in time. Now contrary to what many people believe, not all breakups happen after a heated argument between couples. There are many breakups that occurred because the woman in the relationship feels, and no doubt believes for whatever reason, that she is no longer in love with her special man. Why is that so you might ask? Had it occurred to you that maybe you're ignoring her so much that she might feel that she's inconsequential and merely a secondary citizen in your life? Maybe she feels that you too have somehow lost that loving feeling over her that once wreaked out of every pore. However, if her walking out on you makes you sit up, take stock and puts you back in the right perspective about your relationship, then you must be thinking about how to get her back at this point.

Although there are many, many ways to try and get your ex back (some effective, some not), you can get her back fairly easily if you try to think like a woman does and can execute a plan of action successfully. So if the trouble was that you ignored her for too long, here's the thing. You've got to make a concerted effort to turn things around.  Try to be sweet on her now. Treat her really special. Make her feel that she's the queen of your world without her having to look over your shoulder to see whether you're the front for another person altogether. In other words, try and be yourself as you're doing so. All that many women wanted when in a relationship was to be loved, respected and appreciated most of the time. If you were too harsh on her prior to the breakup, then this is the time that you compensate for all of that. Win her back by showering her with the kind of love she's looking for, but in a way that she knows it's an awakened you and not a hollow impersonation of someone else.

However, it is important that you take things very slow at the outset. A woman who walked out on her man wants some space whether she expressly said she did or otherwise. She would have stayed if she can stand being with you. She could have talked to you instead if she wants to straighten things up. The thing is, your woman doesn't want to do any of those things at the moment. So give her the space that she needs but make her realize that you're just by the door, waiting for her to come back to your arms. This will require a lot of patience on both your parts, but especially you if it means "sleeping out in the cold" for an extended period until the climate warms in your favor. But it can be done. And this is one of the best ways on how to get her back.