Attraction is one of those things that can be hard to understand and figure out. It's bad enough when you are trying to get a woman to like you the first time, but when you are trying to attract back an ex girlfriend, it can be virtually impossible for a guy to figure out. That can easily make you feel like you may never crack the code and figure out a way to get your girlfriend back. Don't let that discourage you, though. There are some simple tips that can help push you along and win her back.

No one is going to give you a step by step outline on exactly what you need to do to get your girlfriend back. As guys, we are expected to just get it right. Of course, that can be a lot of pressure. Pressure that you really don't need, not now when you want to get her back in your life.

Here are some simple tips to win her back and make her your girlfriend again:

1. It all starts with how you think about the situation.

If you start off thinking that it is going to be impossible to get your ex girlfriend back, then it probably will be. You need to have the right mindset first, before you try anything at all. See, if you have the wrong mindset, you are pretty much doomed to fail by your own volition. You need to have a positive frame of mind if you are going to make it easy on yourself.

2. To attract her back, you need to make yourself stand out to her.

As long as you can still stand out as one of the 'good guys,' then you can win her back pretty easily. Now, if you do anything to make her change that opinion of you, then it will be much harder. When a woman knows that you are a good guy, meaning, the kind of guy she would love to date, she won't be so quick to dismiss you... even if she is your ex girlfriend.

3. Not having a plan of action in mind is the quickest way to lose any hope of winning her back.

While it may be true that no one is going to just hand you a proven blueprint to get your girlfriend back, you do need to have some kind of plan of action or else all you are going to have in your corner is the hope that you get it right. Hope is not a bad thing, but if you really want to have her back in your life, I'm sure that you will want more than just a little hope.