This is going to be an interesting article about understanding men.
I'm going to use a popular TV show as a metaphor.
I'm sure you've already figured it out.
It's Judge Judy.
She's been on TV for I don't even know how many years, but she's always great to watch when there's nothing else on TV.
I think she's a good role model if you want to be a better woman for your man.
She might look a little bit strict but if you simply take the following three qualities from her show, I can guarantee that your man will treat what you have to say with much more respect.
Don't be surprised if he loves you more too.
1.
"When I'm Talking, You Be Quiet" This is one of the things that she says all the time when she's talking.
This might come off as being somewhat authoritarian, but if she doesn't employ this sort of strict attitude, then she wouldn't really be a good judge.
If you're arguing, you have to know when to listen and when to be quiet.
When your man has had his turn talking and he lets you talk, make sure that you get your entire thought across.
Don't let him interrupt you and he will be more patient when you talk.
2.
Ask Questions What Judge Judy is great at doing is asking questions.
She makes sure that what the plaintiff and defendant is saying match up to the evidence that is provided and she tries to make the case fair.
If you ask questions, this stops you from assuming things.
If you don't assume things, you're not as likely to get into trouble for assuming something and getting angry over it.
Ask questions, but don't sound accusatory.
Get to the truth.
3.
The Final Verdict As the Judge, no one can dispute the final verdict that she decides.
It might not be fair, but according to the evidence, it's what is right.
This can cause a bit of strife, but you have to realize that if you don't make any of the final calls, your man will simply dominate you for most of the relationship.
You have to step up and not be afraid to make the final call sometimes.
If you can do this, then you'll be hard pressed not to get more respect from your man.
Another note is not to make the final call based on your emotion.
Try to calm down.
If you say it, make sure you mean it too.
Do you think you can channel your inner Judge Judy next time you have a confrontation with your man? Understanding men is easy if you can use these three tips to understand how to resolve conflict with him better.