Do you know that there are certain phrases and verbal techniques that can exert such psychological pressure on a persons mind that they will feel forced to return your phone calls.
In this article I am going to I am going to share these techniques and phrases with you.
Getting an ex partner to return phone calls is one of the biggest problems facing people trying to get their ex partner back.
First a word of caution.
If you put this one technique to use without a full strategy or plan you may cause significant harm to any chance you had of getting your ex partner back.
The first thing to be aware of is what not to say! You have to be aware that there are words that almost never work, and can in fact exert severe psychological pressure on yourself.
The phrases that do not work generally fall into two groups.
PLEADING: This is what the message would sound like.
"Donald please will you call me, I have called four or five times, you have not returned my calls and I need to speak to you.
" Or THE EMERGENCY: "Dianne, it's an emergency.
Please call me immediately, it's very very important.
" OK, can you see why both these approaches will not work? People do not like to be pressurised over ANYTHING especially sensitive emotional things like relationships.
The first secret is to use a person's natural sense of curiosity and their desire for self interest to your own advantage.
Curiosity and self interest are two of the most powerful forces of human psychology, and the greatest secret of all is, that when you use the two together they work with such strength and persuasion that they are almost irresistible! What you need are phrases that you can say that virtually never fail.
Using a friendly tone of voice start your message like this; "Hello Donald it's Tina here I just want to tell you how much I appreciate the things you did for me, can you call me so that I can thank you personally" Do you understand how that sentence uses the combination of curiosity and self interest?