It always amazes me to think of the amount of people who never use a second chance letter to win back there ex.
Sure, people think about writing a note all of letter or sending a text and even an e-mail.
But people are throwing away their relationships if they do not use the right techniques in a second chance letter.
Firstly this latter has to be handwritten.
This is so it stands out from every other message we send and receive in this digital age.
You want your ex to know that you care and you have taken time to write this letter, you certainly don't want them to think you quickly typed out an e-mail and hit send! Putting pen to paper will make it stand out guarantee it gets read.
It is also important to include the right content in this letter.
This is not about justifying any wrong doings in the relationship, it is not about pouring your heart out and looking needy and desperate, nor should it be too cold or heartless.
Getting the balance right is crucial.
Get this wrong and you could do more harm than good.
Your handwritten letter should be about wiping the slate clean and creating an emotional vacuum in your ex's mind.
You do this by earning the few responsibilities and mistakes, making a sincere apology with no excuses, but keeping the letter friendly and upbeat.
If you do the right it will create an emotional vacuum in the mind of your ex and it will allow them to begin missing you.
This isn't some voodoo magic trick but merely an emotional trigger that you can pull with a few select words.
So if you want to get your ex back with a second chance letter in sure you do your research before the ink hits the page.