Patching up a broken relationship is not that simple; however, if you are determined to get back with an ex girlfriend, you need to handle the situation with care.
Break ups usually involve sore feelings; and you must be careful about the methods you use in order to get back with your ex.
Here is a checklist of things you ought to do as soon as you have had a break up.
1.
Find out the reason for the break up.
Why did she dump you? Girls usually have very good reasons to dump guys.
Identify the various factors responsible for your break up.
Could you have prevented it somehow? Is it possible to repair the broken relationship? 2.
If you were in the wrong, waste no time in apologizing.
Make her realize that you are genuinely sorry and would like to get back with her.
3.
Don't isolate yourself just because you had a break up.
There are other people in the world; so get out and have some fun.
If you want, you could engage in some casual dating.
Your ex girlfriend will surely feel a bit jealous and want to know more about how you are doing.
4.
Behave in such a manner that your ex gets the message that you have gone on with life after the break up.
Simultaneously, convey the message that you still have feelings for her.
If you don't let her know that you care, she might get the message that you have completely moved on and are no longer interested in patching up the broken relationship.
5.
Re-establish a bond of friendship with your ex.
Win over her trust and good will.
This will bring you close to her.
You can talk about your break up in a mature manner.
If your break up is a mystery to you, such communication will solve it for you.
You will find out whether she dumped you owing to a flaw in your character or whether she just made a mistake.
6.
Purchase an expensive gift for her.
She will fall in love with you all over again; and this time, she will stay in love.
Getting her an expensive gift is the best way to patch up your broken relationship.
While you follow the above steps, you must be careful not to beg or plead with your ex to get back you.
Before you try getting an ex back, you must find out for sure whether you can handle another rejection.
If you fail to get her back, simply move on with your life.
If you succeed in getting back with your ex, take care that you avoid making the same mistakes again.
And don't ever date anybody seriously just to make your ex feel jealous.
Consider how your date will feel if she realizes that you are using her in order to get back with an ex.