Typically, it IS a good sign that your ex girlfriend still flirts with you.
However, you can't just assume that it means that she definitely wants to get back together with you.
Sometimes it might mean that and sometimes, it doesn't.
Yeah, I know, why does it have to be that way? Well, her flirting with you is usually a sign that she still feels some attraction towards you, but it doesn't necessarily mean that the attraction is strong enough that she is just going to forget whatever it was that caused her to end the relationship.
What you need to do is to find out how to make that attraction that she is feeling strong enough so that she does want to get back together.
Here are some tips on how to react when your ex girlfriend flirts with you so that you do build up her attraction: 1.
Acting a little bit aloof when she flirts with you is usually a good thing to do.
Notice that I said a little bit aloof, though.
You can act too aloof, in which case it is going to seem like there isn't really any attraction on your part anymore and you don't want to send that signal.
The signal that you do want to send is that you are not super eager for her attention.
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Being able to escalate the flirting is also a good thing to do.
How can you do this if you are acting aloof? Well, you can learn to flirt in other ways than the way that most guys typically flirt back with a woman.
Using body language to flirt with your ex girlfriend can be a good way to escalate things without coming across like you are too eager and if you do it right - she'll respond back to you.
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Figure out how to make your ex girlfriend feel sexual tension.
This is good because it is the exact opposite of what most men do with their ex girlfriend and realistically, most men don't end up back with the woman that they love.
If you can make her feel like there is a lot of natural sexual tension with you, you'll find that quite often, the natural progression IS for you and her to get back with one another.
While you can usually figure that her flirting with you is a good thing, being able to make her feel sexual tension always takes things to that next level.