All of us have had problems with love, and when these things happen, it's always something that leaves us with a bad taste in our mouth and an aching pain in our hearts.
We'll assume that if you're reading this article your girlfriend dumped you, or you dumped her.
No matter the case, one thing is for sure, you'd like to get her back.
So can this be done? The short answer is yes, but what you should really ask yourself is if it's really worth getting your girlfriend back.
Why so? Well, think about it.
No matter what ended the relationship, one thing is for sure: you or her were unhappy with the way things were going.
Do you honestly believe that getting your girlfriend back will change the way your relationship works? Perhaps yes, perhaps not! Anyway, you should check out the waters and see what's up with her, and if you still have a chance.
By now your girlfriend might already be in a new relationship.
This hurts, but, after all, she has the right to seek her own happiness and to be with whomever she sees fit.
Don't fret though.
The chances are that her relationship with the new man in her life is at the beginning, and this means that her feelings towards him are not that strong.
Plus, she also still has strong feelings towards you.
However, you will want to know if she's seeing someone else for sure.
But, since you can't ask her, you should seek help from your common friends or from her friends.
Don't be too direct, just ask in passing how she's doing and you'll get the information you wanted.
Two things can happen: she's either still single, or she's with someone else.
In the second case, she can be in a relationship with someone she just met, a rebound relationship, or with someone she knew for some time and she decided that now's a good time to be with him.
If she's with someone new, then this is good.
However, if she's dating someone she knows for some time, this implies some strong feelings towards that someone, which means that your chances of getting her back are slimmer.
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