Right after the split, you've found yourself having advice hurled at you from all different directions.
Suddenly everyone in your life is a relationship expert who has the inside scoop on the best way to get your ex back.
Look at the magazines at the checkout stand and there too you'll find pages upon pages of "tricks and tips" to get your ex back, for good.
Information is important, but in this information overloaded society we live in, good information can be hard to find.
And it is hard to know right from wrong with the contradictory nature of a lot of the advice you will read.
What you need is something that works, something simple that has been proven to have success.
And the best way to get your ex back, by a long shot is the No Contact Rule.
The No Contact Rule has many benefits beyond just being the best tool to get your ex back - it allows you to do so while rebuilding your self-esteem and not stooping to tactics that will later make you question your dignity.
The No Contact Rule is what it implies, you will have no contact whatsoever with your ex (this is only temporary), and this needs to be done as soon after the breakup as possible.
While it is hard, it is helpful to try to see the breakup as their loss, not yours.
You are an amazing person and you know what you have to offer, and if your ex can't see that now, awhile of having no contact with you whatsoever is going to really make them miss you and realize what a gem you are.
Nobody is saying that this is easy advice to follow.
Your heart tells you to contact your ex to do whatever is necessary to get your ex back.
But this strategy almost never works.
The No Contact Rule is highly effective because it allows time and space for both parties to get over the hurt and anguish from the breakup, and it also gives both parties the opportunity to really miss one another in the process.
The No Contact Rule is a surefire way to get your ex back that doesn't involve you resorting to tactics that you will later hang your head in shame over, and it will keep you from making those often fatal relationship errors that sabotage our chances of getting our ex back for good.
With the No Contact Rule, your ex will have plenty of time and space to move on from their negative emotions, and they will also have the opportunity to miss you.
The next thing you know, your ex is going to be trying to get in contact with you to get you back!