To get back an ex boyfriend, it is of the upmost importance that you keep an open mind.
The truth is, what you think will work to get him back probably won't.
Your emotions are your biggest enemy right now.
If you let your heart lead, you will NOT like where it takes you.
It's time to use your head! You want to get back an ex boyfriend.
You Do NOT your passion to scare him away.
If you take on the role of hunter, by default he becomes the hunted.
And when the hunter approaches the hunted, what does the hunted do? It RUNS AWAY! To get back an ex boyfriend, you're going to have to keep your emotions in check.
Now is the time to re-invent yourself.
You've got to give him a REASON to want you back! Get Back An Ex Boyfriend - Step One: AGREE WITH THE BREAKUP! That's it! Nothing more, and nothing less.
You have got to have a SHORT telephone conversation (NEVER an email or text message) with your ex boyfriend.
Tell him you believe that breaking up was an amazing idea.
Tell him you're feeling much better about your life and that you're excited to be single.
Tell him you hope he's just as happy as you are about it.
And that's it.
Make it short and to the point.
Don't be rude or cynical.
Avoid sounding passive-aggressive.
If he wants to ask questions or starts to get emotional, tell him you're "meeting up with a friend" and that you have to go.
Be genuine and friendly, but be firm.
When you've said what you called to say, get off the phone...
NOW! I know all this seems a little weird, and perhaps a bit counter-intuitive, but it works EVERY TIME...
and it works incredibly well! This is the very first thing you absolutely MUST do to get back an ex boyfriend.
If you skip this critical step, chances are very good he will fall in love with someone else very quickly.
Do NOT let that happen!