You want to win back your ex lover, and you don't know where to start.
The pain of the breakup is still fresh in your mind, yet being alone right at this moment is killing you.
Just when you need the most comfort, your ex lover cannot be there for you.
Don't panic.
If you want to win back an ex lover, here are some surefire ways to get your mind back to the way it was before the breakup: Don't flip out.
If you panic, you're done.
Yup, you will do and say things that aren't really you and they will come back to haunt you.
You probably won't even remember anything you say in panic mode, so try to relax by calling a friend to ease your mind.
Your friends are your best ally right now, so take full advantage of them.
I'm sure they needed your shoulder a time or two to cry on.
If you really feel like crying, this is the place you want to be; being around only the people you can trust-people that won't let your pain and tears outside your circle.
A friend in need, really is a friend indeed.
Stay away from the ex.
Don't call, text, or email.
You are not at your best now; if you want to get back an ex lover now or eventually, you don't want them to see you freaked out or weak in any way.
Don't worry about the why now; you will understand it when you formulate the proper plan for getting them back later.
Besides, staying in contact may keep your ex lover wanting this way-you don't want to be just 'friends' for now on, do you? Totally agree with the breakup.
This will not only disarm them, but will let them know you are strong yet agreeable.
If they broke up with you just for spite or anger, you will have the upper hand immediately.
You are also showing how mature you are; nobody expects someone to agree with them when they are ending a relationship.
They will have to respect you for this.