Do you feel an immense amount of love for him and you want to let him know? Is he the best guy you've ever been with and you want to let him know just how special he is to you? Are you afraid to say anything because your deep emotions might frighten him away? Far too many women are premature with their declaration of their love.
Why? For one thing, many will assume a sense of love based on only a few basic facts.
He's cute.
He's got a cute wink.
He's lines are cute.
Not much basis for true love, yet it's amazing how many women will claim such great affection based only on this.
But even as the relationship develops and true emotions begin to emerge, women will latch onto them quicker than men.
To a large degree men are so reluctant to fall in love that they deny the feelings that are taking over them.
This is why it's so important to dose the amount of love you show him.
Showing him too much too soon can definitely scare him.
Either he'll find it odd that you could love someone you don't really know or he'll feel the stress of having to live up to the expectations you've just set up.
Neither of these are a really good place to be.
Instead, just show him your affection by being attentive.
Listening to him might sound banal, but it really is a great way of showing you're interested in him.
Have fun with him and show your appreciation for the good times you have with him.
Guys really want to know that they're doing a good job of making you happy and your praise will mean a lot to them.
Little things can add up to a lot without scaring him away.
So take small steps and make small gestures instead of great big declarations of love.
And never say the actual words aloud.
They might hang there making for an awkward and incredibly tense moment.
Let him feel your love in a slow, sure way and you'll never have to worry about scaring him away.